One more act of gratitude

Thanksgiving might be over, but there’s one more thing you need to remember to be thankful for, all those people who’ve helped you compile and submit your college applications.

If you haven’t done it already, now is a great time to break out the old pen and box of note cards to write a little something to them.

Sometimes I get a little writer’s block when I’m staring at the blank card. If you do, start out with the basic thank you sentence. Tell them “Thank you for submitting that recommendation for me.” You can follow it up with a sentence or two about your hopes and dreams related to your applications. If you still have room and don’t know what to say, you could tell them a story about something that was funny during the process, “Can you believe I almost attached a picture of my dog instead of my transcripts?” You could also share with them your general happiness that the testing, essay writing and document gathering is over. “I’m so happy to be done with the application!” And, if you still have room, finish up with some reflection on the long wait to hear back from all those schools, “I doubt I’ll know anything before the New Year, but I’ll be checking my mail everyday!” Finish up with a promise to let them know where you get admitted (they really do want to know!) and follow through with that when you do get your letters.

You’d be surprised how meaningful these little thank yous can be to the people who helped you out.

And, in case you’re wondering, yes, they do need to be on paper. In this case, it’s more than the thought that counts, it’s the effort and kindness expressed in handwriting your note.

Turning the Tide

Are you considering a mission trip in order to amp up the “community service” portion of your college application? Don’t bother. Most university admissions officers are savvy to this trend and aren’t impressed by a two week voluntourism project. What they are impressed by is sustained commitment to a volunteer project or charitable focus.

They want your contributions to be meaningful to the community you serve and also meaningful in making you who you are.

What does that mean for you? It’s not about the hours, it’s about engagement.

If your high school requires community service hours, try to pick projects that last throughout the year, or which share similar goals. Volunteer for organizations whose mission you admire, not just what’s most convenient. They’re also looking for volunteerism that shows “contributions to others in ways that reflect varying types of family and community contributions across race, culture and class.” See more at “Turning the Tide” http://mcc.gse.harvard.edu/files/gse-mcc/files/20160120_mcc_ttt_execsummary_interactive.pdf

For those who are currently living abroad, there are lots of organizations that can use your help and fulfill this goal. So, who needs voluntourism anyway?